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Wake-up, Nobody does it better than YOU!

The origin of your joy, happiness, and self-worth comes from your relationship with yourself.
Everything outside of you will have short-lived effects on your moods, lives, and well-being.

The most significant relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself. Put that loving energy into yourself.

Being everything to everyone is impossible. No matter what you do, there will always be someone who thinks differently. So follow your intuition, follow your heart, because you know the answer and you know what is best for you. And you know who has your back. YOU!

You are born a warrior; your heart is the sword that is always there to protect you. Awareness is the weapon of choice, and your armor is your genuine intention. That is why it is so important to wear yourself well.

Each day set an intention to honor yourself, be a loving presence, that is your best defense against anything or anyone who is not coming from love. Just be love

Tip: Notice if you are slouching. Shift into an open-hearted, uplifted posture. Feel the difference.


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Expand, relax into yourself.
choose yourself.
choose your life.
choose openness.

Insight comes like lightening… I am open to receive it.

There is plenty of JOY to be had with an open heart-mind.
I make space to feel my feelings.

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We are up against some major changing times, a revolution. Now is the time to claim yourself, to trust in yourself to make decisions you know are right for you, not the one someone THINKS is the; right; choice, but a decision to choose your way.

With all the voting hoopla, there is a lot of people screaming their choosing of what to vote on or who to vote for this election. They are also telling you that if you don’t vote you are making poor decisions. NOT TRUE, maybe for them it is an unfortunate decision not to vote, but they are NOT you. The time is now, the perfect opportunity to be bold, and take a stand in YOUR truth whether you vote or not, or any other choices you make for yourself in this life.

What a privilege it is to exercise your freedom to choose; to be courageous and free. By Giving yourself permission to be free, in turn; you allows other’s that same privilege. No greater freedom.

Robert Frost quotes, “Freedom lies in being bold.” No truer words were spoken, being bold is risky. Standing in YOUR truth comes with a price, but the price you pay for conforming is the death of self. You just handed yourself over to someone else’s dream.

Free yourself from the internal constraints of someone else’s idea of what is ‘right and wrong,’ trust yourself even if it includes Mis-Takes.

Awareness of who you are and what you do is the only way to know yourself apart from the collective consciousness. Peace out!

Freedom is not merely the opportunity to do as one pleases; neither is it merely the opportunity to choose between set alternatives. Freedom is, first of all, the chance to formulate the available choices, to argue over them — and then, the opportunity to choose.
C. Wright Mills

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What happens when we change things about ourselves? We all evolve for many reasons; choice, circumstances, and unexplainable energies that creep in and cause us to what to make a shift in our lives that might make us different, unsteady or even unrecognizable.
Change can be gradual, or sudden. While we are changing things up about ourselves or our way of being, we can appear wishy-washy to self and others. The people around us, including ourselves, like the familiar. As we are shapeshifting the old way of doing or being, we might also change our opinions, contradict ourselves occasionally and appear inconsistent with our actions and or beliefs.
Personally, for me, when I decided to give up a recreational hobby I shared with many peeps, I personally witnessed how uncomfortable change can be within my circle of friends and family. Just do something different, or don’t go along with an old behavior and immediately, someone is letting you know they think it is ridiculous, or you can’t do this, or they question your intentions for the change.
Maybe my change caused them to look at their own behaviors, no matter what the reason was for my decision to be different or the amount of heat I was getting, the change was uncomfortable for a while. The toughest part of my choice change was believing I could do this against all the odds, and not falling into the consistency trap; I did it yesterday. ‘Therefore I shall do it today,’ without caving into the pressure of other people’s judgments of me.
It is up to you to stand in YOUR truth, freedom, and way of being in spite of the oppositions that come your way.
The is the biggest challenge in life is beating to the heart of your spirit; your individually is your gift to yourself, you can say and do things that appear completely off the beaten path and still be ‘Right On’! Because YOUR path or YOUR change is contained within you and nobody knows the depths of your humanness. You are an emerging bEing that can change your views, opinions, ideas, and beliefs at will and as frequently as you desire.
You don’t need permission to BE who you are or what you want to evolve into; change, callings, and the inconsistencies ‘whisper’ to us all the time. Don’t Let the fear of other people’s judgments, opinions, and ridicule instill fear into your heart. Life is a constant crossroad. Whichever road YOU choose, you are on a path of self-discovery.  😉
“How would your life be different if…You stopped allowing other people to dilute or poison your day with their words or opinions? Let today be the day…You stand strong in the truth of your beauty and journey through your day without attachment to the validation of others.”
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

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